grandma's wake..



monk was telling us abt e 头七.. 七七四十九天 thg..



this is grandma's temple..
she used to stay here.. till she is unable to take care of urself,
thn small aunt send her to old folks hm..

now she is gone.. her ashes in e sea..
her 神主牌位 is placed here, bk to her old temple..



i believe she wil love tis pl.. i believe she is v happy here..
see e tree below..? u knw wht tree..?
tis is a 菩提树.. ^^
i used to find is so amaze to see a 菩提树 here..
cos whn i was young, i learned tht buddha got enlightenment undr tis tree..



aftr settled dwn grandma's 神主牌位..
wanted to go hm.. but waited so long no cab..
thus i decided to walk further out to e big main rd..
in tis case is to cross over to opposite..
& hv to walk a v long rd before reaching main rd...



along e lane / rd got trees, plants, & 含羞草..



it was reali hot..
& althou i walked over to a bigger main rd..
i stil waited for 10-15mins before i finally got a cab..

i didnt go bk hm rite away whn i rch..
as it was ard 2plus pm, i decided to slowly lunch dwn str..
drink a coffee.. relax relax til ard 3.45pm thn go up..
cos by thn joey go tuition,
jeff, jaslene & bb wil go to her ah ma hse..
think joel & eu may stil b sleeping..
just wana minimise seeing thm as much as possible..

went Q for 4D.. by e tm i went up was alrdy 4plus pm..

thts e end of grandma's wake..
my cousin went to collect her ashes e nxt day..
she said grandma has got colourful 舍利子..
she said is pink or reddish colour,
which according to 师父,
she was a kind person who 有做善事..

i was e 1 who carried (sit beside her) photos, 神主牌 & 香til temple..
i kept talking to her while on e way to temple..
telling her whr r we going now..
asked her to sit properly..
covered shades for her (v sunny)..

i strange thg was.. 1 didnt zz well e 2days before she passed away..
shifted fr tanah merah to tampines,
i had always zzz like a pig..
is only tht 2 days, i kept waking up mid of nite for no reason..
aftr she passed away, i zz like pig agn..

心灵感应...?