accom brother to hospital yestrdy along with mum & ex sis inlaw..

woke up usual hrs, thought shd b enough tm,
appt was 0830hrs..
but ended up i was half hr late due to jam..
was rather fustrated abt e jam,
worry i wil b late, worry i m not able to speak to his doc..
plus e taxi uncle remain his speed at 70-80 (on highway),
even when thr wasn't a jam..

brother did quite a number of test..
blood test 2x, took bone marrow, echo heart test..
doc say he needs to b hospitalised,
cos thr wil b another test today..

then we waitied for vacant bed, we requested for 6 bedded..
waited til almost 9pm, they gave him a 2 bedded 1st..

i went to talk to social worker,
submit required documents on behalf..

initial plan was to go bk office in e aftrn,
cos i didnt knw wil take a whole day..
ended up i went off ard 6plus pm,
dear came over to drive me hm..

was v tired at e end of yestrdy..
'roaming' in e hospital, doing all his admin stuffs,
waiting for doc, test, bed, etc cn b rather tiring..

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called mum tis morning,
chat with her & ask her to bring brother's toothbrush..
she said she is not going over to see brother today..
she cried.. just dun undrstd, cos she was v ok yestrdy..
thought she will bring niece over to visit brother (niece bd today),
she said dun wana bring her over, say wht wil 'xiang chong'..
then say tomor niece got english test la, need to study la..
then say now ghost festival la, dun go out so late la,
then say niece got tuition la..

just feel all these were just her 'excuses' for not wanting to visit brother..
dun knw wht is in her mind.. sigh..

i told her :-
1) english test cn nt study de, english test study wht?
2) we no 'pan tian' de, so thr will no 'xiang chong'.
is little niece's bd (xi) , she shd let both of thm (bro & his daughter) celebrate together ma..
i told her, sm more is 'chong xi chong xi', even better..
3) i asked her ' u didnt pray ghost festival meh'?
she said 'got.........'
i said ' got............... then u scare wht ghost festival?'

sigh.. i told her mayb brother wil feel lonely,
is like nobody bother to visit him like tht..

i will go over visit him later after wk..
dear wil fetch me thr, i'll go bk on my own..
too far fro him to all e way drive me hm..
(realised that when he drove me hm fr hospital yestrdy)

brother called.. he took e 1st chemo just now..
asked how is he feeling now,
he said tired..
told him to zz.. rest more..

will get him sm food later..


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