i m getting marry soon...
i m gona b mrs phee soon.. offically..
but, i m coughing..


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wk has been bz..
v bz..
everythg is messy,


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went to river safari with e phees..
tos 3 little phee went b4 with their mum..
only me & mr phee nvr..
saw jia jia & kai kai..
e way they eat, look fierce lor..


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in a way settled mum hse, stil hv part 2 & part 3..
well, guess she cn zz slightly bettr now..


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joey has been unwell for quite long..
fr flu to cough, to sore throat, to fever..
hope he recover real soon..


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we had many argument..
i wanted so many thgs..
& u feel all r not necessary..
we compromise.. more fr ur side..
thn i also compromise,
cos in a way cn save up more, plus i feel no point alrdy since u feel no nd..
but whn i dun wan it alrdy.. u wan it..

i read an article : "Plan Your Wedding Without Killing Each Other"
& there is tis part tht says :

Her fairy-tale vision of her wedding

Her wedding? I know, it strikes you as funny.
This is your wedding day too.
Sure, the groom plays an integral role in the wedding but come on now,
everyone has their eyes on the bride at a wedding. Even your parents.
With that in mind, if you try to sabotage her vision of the wedding,
no good will come out of it.

Perhaps the one exception here is if she wants you to pay for the reception,
or if your parents are going to pay for it.
Then I can understand if you put up a fight.
Similarly if most of the guests are from your side.
But all things being equal, the best advice I can give to men is to let her do her thing.

Let her have her day.
By all means, never sit passively in the corner and nod your head in the affirmative at everything. That would make you a spineless chump, and I never advocate that.

Here comes the bride

The message here is to let her be the princess she needs to be on her day.
Be her prince and shut your mouth.

Then, when it comes time to buy a house, go out and get what you want — furniture, appliances and all. A wide screen TV and leather recliner last a lot longer than wedding cake, after all.


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lol... aftr reading tis article, i m like 'WOW'...
well, tis is exactly hw i feel.. is my day...
althou i m too old to b a princess..


i just nd a makeup artist, a photographer, a nice lunch with frens,
a beautiful me & u.. & i remove videographer since u feel is nt necessary..

i knw i seems asking too much, cos is my 2nd marriage..
frankly, i dun agree tht a 2nd marriage shd nt wear pretty gown,
shd nt hv nice lunch, shd nt hv photographer, shd nt hv makeup artist..
i dun agree tht 2nd marriage shd remove everythg..
unless we r reali broke..

i feel tht, during my 1st marriage, i didnt knw wht is going on..
i didnt knw wht i need.. i just go with wht my parents say..
i was just 20yrs old bk thn..

tis 2nd marriage, i knw wht i wan, & i wish it would b better thn e 1st..
i knw perfect is impossible, but at least is wht i wan..
it is an importn day to me.. nt just e signing paper part.. is e whole thg..

spending time doing tos little wedding projects,
spending time to find thgs i need for e projects,
spending $ to get tos 'equipments' i need to do..
i used my time & heart to design, to glue every pieces of thgs together..
thr r tons of sincerity on tos little projects..

i knw guys wil feel, aiyo.. need tis meh? no need la...
ya.. actually is no need.. & everythg cn just go buy a ready made,
y spend so much effort, time & $ to do all tis thgs....?


cn u see tos sincerity...?
or u r just looking at e box, as 'a box lor',
or u r just looking at e book, as 'a book lor'

u knw y i wan u to incharge 1 of e project?
cos i wan ur involvement..
i wan u to also use ur time & heart to make smthg for us..


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i m a person, do everythg with a heart..
especially to tos i love..

if i m like wht u sm times say :
"b selfish abit, think of wht u wan.. dun always think other 1st"
we wun last... we wil fight more for our wedding.. haha...

dear.... tis is me.. jesmine wong..
is born like tht i guess.. cn nt change.. is in me..
is only tis kind of character, thn we r possible to gel togethr..

well.. mrs phee in 3 days..
we wil challenge each othr more as we grow old togethr.. haha..

i love u mr phee..


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